I recently posted an essay about Love versus Ego and the Pain Body. I wanted to follow up with a list of references and suggested readings so it doesn't seem like I'm just inventing this stuff. References and Suggested Readings His Holiness the Dalai Lama. An Open Heart: Practicing Compassion in Everyday Life . U.S.A: Little, Brown and Company, 2001. Madea Goes to Jail . Dir. Tyler Perry. Lionsgate, 2009. DVD. Shimoff, Marci. Love for No Reason: 7 Steps to Creating a Life of Unconditional Love . New York, NY: Free Press, 2010. Tolle, Eckhart. The Power of Now: A Guide to Spiritual Enlightenment . Vancouver, B.C: Namaste Pub, 2004. Tolle, Eckhart. A New Earth: Awakening to Your Life's Purpose . New York, NY: Dutton/Penguin Group, 2005.